For One Please

Finding solace in the “soulitude of solitude” can be a journey of self-discovery. Initially, the idea of dining alone might feel unfamiliar, perhaps even unsettling. Thoughts might wander, and observing others could lead to the creation of imagined narratives. Silence, once unwelcome, and being alone, once a source of anxiety, can transform over time.

There might be an initial inclination to seek out less conspicuous spots, like a seat at the bar, until the desire for personal space outweighs the wish to blend in. Progressing to a quiet corner table, positioned to observe without being overtly seen, can mark a step towards greater comfort. Eventually, the desire for a prime seat with a view may emerge, shifting the focus from outward observation to inward reflection. This can lead to moments of quiet contentment and a sense of inner peace.

Years of embracing these solitary moments can cultivate a sense of joy and tranquility. Interactions with others, when they arise, often become opportunities for meaningful connection and the sharing of heartfelt experiences, guided by an inner sense of purpose.

Requesting "a table for one" can evolve into the honoring of a personal sanctuary, a space that brings joy and happiness. The empty seat across the table can become a symbolic place, perhaps one that holds the potential for connection with another who also appreciates the beauty of life.

At times, this quiet space may also serve as a haven for those who need a listening ear, a sense of being seen, and the warmth of shared kindness.

You’ve reached your F.L.Y!

Can you relate?